Parents
Teen Runaways are on the increase. Many teens think that the grass is greener on the other side. They are confused and following the crowd of peers making poor choices. Teens want to escape the "rules of a household" and we as parents, become their number one enemy. They feel that they are fearless and can prove they can survive without their parents and their rules. Rules are put in place for a reason; we love our children and want them to grow up with dignity and respect we try to instill in them. Their flight plan, in some ways, is a cry for attention. This is very common and the parent feels helpless, hopeless and alone. Many times runaways are back home shortly, however there are other situations that can be more serious. This is not to say any child that runs away is not serious, but when this becomes a habit and is their way of rebelling, a parent needs to intervene.
Most teens go to someone they trust, such as a friend or a relative. Often times stories and accusations about the home life are made up to make things seem worse. This is very common, a parent has to suffer the pain and humiliation that it causes, to compound it with the need to get your child help that they need. If you fear your child is at risk of running, the lines of communication have to be open. We understand this can be difficult, however if possible, needs to be approached in a positive manner. Teen help starts with communication, which as adults, is our responsibility to open that door.
Having a teen runaway is very frightening and it can bring you to your wits end. Try to remain positive and hopeful and do all you can to help understand why your child is acting out this way.
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